Nikki

About:

Nikki is a middle-aged woman focused on kindness, change, and self-improvement, enjoying motorcycling and embracing life's imperfections.

Website:

www.nikki.lol

Specializations:

Therapist Writer

Interests:

Kindness Change Self-improvement Love Acceptance

Outgoing Links:

David Cain Robert Birming

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2025-03-12 • life reflection commitment

The author reflects on their fear of being non-committal in their 20s and how they now believe that commitment is the best way to learn what you like and don't like. They question if they are too noncommittal in their current life...

2025-03-12 • life and career lessons reflection travel career development financial and family support meditation death horse riding

The author reflects on her life as she turns forty-six, discussing her experiences, lessons learned, and her desire to live a good life and have a good death. She talks about her time in NYC, her studies at Harvard, her horse less...

2025-03-12 • social media dating middle-aged

The author reflects on her recent experience of asking someone out and the challenges of dating in midlife. She shares her thoughts on communication, the impact of social media on relationships, and the importance of being true to...

2025-03-12 • community software vulnerability self love self-soothing

The text discusses the author's internal struggle with negative self-talk and the importance of self-compassion. The author shares her experience of learning to self-soothe and practice self-compassion, and the impact it has had o...

2025-03-12 • emotional resilience friendship software vulnerability heartbreak self love

The author reflects on a year of heartbreak and self-questioning, discussing their struggles with worth, vulnerability, and brokenness. They have found comfort in mindfulness, yoga, and self-compassion, and have come to appreciate...

2025-03-12 • identity meditation emotional detachment

The text explores the concept of self-identity and the labels we use to define ourselves, delving into the idea of non-self and the ever-changing nature of identity. The author reflects on the practice of meditation and its role i...

2025-03-12 • emotional resilience self discovery breakups

The text is an emotional essay about a past relationship and the author's journey of self-discovery and healing after the breakup. It describes the author's feelings, thoughts, and experiences during the relationship and the after...

2025-03-12 • love acknowledgment journey self discovery

The text is a reflection on the author's life, feeling unmoored and adrift, and the journey of rediscovering and accepting oneself.

2025-03-12 • nostalgia regret embracing the present moment

The author reflects on watching the show Felicity and how it brings back memories of a difficult time in their life, including dropping out of school, an accident, and the nostalgia for the person they might have been. They expres...

2025-03-12 • art emotional experience mindfulness relationship management meditation

The author reflects on their emotional nature and how it has impacted their life, relationships, and art. They discuss their journey to regulate their emotions and the impact of their breakup. They express a desire to manage their...

2025-03-12 • breakups moving on

The text reflects on the author's experience of immense upheaval, including a breakup and a move, and the process of learning to let go and create a new map for themselves.

2025-03-12 • finance emotional resilience career software vulnerability work ethic mentorship honesty

The text provides advice for people starting their careers, focusing on knowing oneself, advocating for oneself, working hard, being honest, resilient, helpful, deliberate, and planning for the future.

2025-03-12 • fear motorcycles

The author discusses her experience of getting a motorcycle license and buying a Royal Enfield INT650 after a breakup. She describes the feeling of riding the motorcycle and how it helps her confront her fears. She also talks abou...

2025-03-12 • emotional experience physical therapy breakups substance

The author discusses their experience with feeling emotions deeply and how they used substances to cope with intense feelings. They talk about their recent break-up and how they have learned to embrace and release their emotions, ...

2025-03-12 • writing summer festival authorship rights

The author reflects on her intentions for the summer, expressing a desire to explore her passion for writing and determine if she truly loves it. She discusses her history with writing and her aspirations to finish a historical fi...

2025-03-12 • life reflection futures market change possibilities

The author reflects on her life and the changes she has gone through, and is considering her future and the possibilities it holds.

2025-03-12 • relationship management sadness anxiety heartbreak moving on

The author reflects on the difficulty of moving on from a past relationship, expressing a desire to erase painful memories and move beyond the hurt.

2025-03-12 • self-healing new beginnings breakups

The author reflects on her recent breakup and the emotional turmoil that followed, as well as her efforts to find stability and healing in the aftermath.

2025-03-12 • writing career novel writing relationships

The author discusses the challenges of balancing a full-time job, a relationship, and writing a novel, expressing the joy and fulfillment that writing brings to their life.

2025-03-12 • writing and reading goals word count historical fiction

The author discusses word count rules for historical novels, citing examples of popular books and questioning whether to follow convention or aim for a higher word count. They express doubt about their writing skills and time cons...