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Florence, a 9-year-old unschooler, tries school for the first time to play team sports but ultimately finds the experience misaligned with her needs and returns to unschooling.
The post emphasizes the significance of home education and the undervalued role of parents who choose to educate their children at home. It discusses the emotional and professional responsibilities that come with this choice, argu...
Genuine social development for home-educated children is crucial, and common beliefs about socialization are often misguided according to extensive research.
The post discusses the neuroscience and developmental timelines of a child's brain before and after the age of five, arguing against the concept of 'school readiness' and highlighting four key reasons why this idea is fundamentall...
An unschooled 18-year-old successfully enters tertiary education without exams, showcasing his achievements compared to traditionally schooled classmates.
The text discusses the impact of AI on the future of work and the lack of preparation for children growing up in the AI generation. It emphasizes the urgency for parents to understand the changes AI will bring and the need to prep...
The text discusses the doubts that home education parents have about whether they are doing enough, and provides a science-backed guide to understanding what 'enough' looks like.
The text discusses the concept of children falling behind in school and how it is misleading. It emphasizes that children develop at different paces and that the formal education system does not account for this variability. It en...
The text discusses the struggle of deschooling for parents who have transitioned to a life without traditional schooling. It explains how the brain and body are deeply affected by the years of conditioning in the school system, ma...
The text discusses why children resist learning and how to respond in a way that protects connection and builds capability.
The text discusses the challenges faced by home educating families in determining if their approach is working. It explores the idea that traditional benchmarks may hold children back and provides real signs of growth and progress...
The text discusses the topic of designing the best curriculum for your child, addressing common questions and concerns parents may have about their child's education.
The text discusses the concept of a curriculum in homeschooling and the pressure to find the right one. It emphasizes that a curriculum should be about nurturing and leading out a child's unique voice, gifts, and passions.
The author discusses the misconception that focusing on academics prepares children for adulthood and shares insights from their research.
The text discusses the discomfort around giving children freedom and how it reflects adults' unresolved relationship with freedom. It explores the fear of confronting the limitations accepted in life and the impact of children's a...
The text discusses the struggle of getting kids to engage deeply with things and provides reasons and solutions for it. It emphasizes that passion is a process and not a given trait, and parents can help children develop it. The m...